AniDB

Guys & gals, I need help! I lost link to website where members post links to anime & such... can anyone help me? Looks almost exactly like this website, but has forums named anime, adult anime, manga, & adult manga

Propably you mean this: http://forum.anime-reactor.net/
And more useful links are here:
http://www.anidb.net/wiki/index.php?tit ... nded_Links

Yes! Bless you!